ACT Lesson #4: Values Clarification

In Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), values are the guiding principles that reflect what is truly important to us, shaping our sense of purpose and direction in life. Unlike goals, which are specific outcomes we aim to achieve, values represent the broader qualities we aspire to embody, such as compassion, creativity, or connection.

By clarifying our values, we can set more meaningful goals that align with our authentic selves, enhancing our motivation and commitment to pursuing them. This alignment is particularly beneficial when facing challenges like anxiety, stress, or depression, as it helps ground us in what truly matters, fostering resilience and a sense of fulfillment even in difficult times. Embracing our values empowers us to navigate life’s obstacles with intention, transforming our struggles into opportunities for growth and deeper self-awareness.

Identifying Your Values
Two essential questions about clarifying your values are: “What makes my life rich and meaningful?” and “What do I want to stand for?” Here is a simple process of identifying values.

  1. Think for a moment in what areas of your life you are struggling (e.g., in relationships, at work/school, with yourself) and pick one area you want to focus on.
  2. Then go over the List of Values below and pick 3-5 values that feel relevant for the area of your life you chose. If you are struggling with this step, ask yourself:
    • “With what value principles do you want to show up in the area of your life you chose?”
    • “If in a few years people gave me feedback about what they admired about me, what value principles would I want them to comment on?”
  3. Once you have identified your values, move on to ACT Lesson #5: Commitment to Action to learn how to put your values into action.

List of Values

Ability 

Acceptance 

Accomplishment 

Achievement 

Acknowledgement 

Activity / Action 

Adventure 

Agency 

Aliveness 

Aloneness 

Altruism 

Appearance 

Approval 

Autonomy 

Balance 

Beauty 

Boundaries 

Calmness 

Caring for others 

Challenge 

Change 

Charity 

Clarity 

Comfort 

Commitment 

Communication 

Community 

Compassion 

Competition 

Complexity 

Confidentiality 

Connection 

Consistency 

Contribution 

Courage 

Creativity 

Curiosity 

Decisiveness 

Difference 

Dignity 

Discipline 

Environment 

Elegance 

Empathy 

Entertainment 

Excellence 

Excitement 

Experience 

Exploration 

Expression 

Fairness 

Faith 

Family 

Feeling 

Flexibility 

Forgiveness 

Fortitude 

Freedom 

Friendship 

Fulfillment 

Fun/humour 

Generosity 

Giving 

God/religion 

Gratitude 

Growth 

Happiness/joy 

Harmony 

Health 

Helping 

Hobbies/pastimes 

Honesty 

Hope 

Independence 

Influence 

Innovation 

Intelligence 

Integrity 

Intimacy 

Justice 

Kindness 

Knowledge 

Laughter 

Leadership 

Learning/growing 

Letting loose 

Life 

Limit setting 

Love 

Loyalty 

Making a difference 

Mastery 

Mediation 

Money 

Music 

Nature 

Novelty 

Openness 

Order 

Organisation 

Passion 

Patience 

Peace 

Peacefulness 

Perseverance 

Personability 

Playfulness 

Pleasing others 

Pleasing self 

Pleasure 

Positivity 

Possessions 

Power 

Privacy 

Purpose 

Recognition 

Relationship(s) 

Relaxation 

Reliability 

Repair 

Resilience 

Resolution 

Respect 

Responsibility 

Rest 

Safety 

Self-confidence 

Self-reliance 

Serenity 

Service 

Solving problems 

Spirituality 

Spontaneity 

Sport 

Staying power 

Stimulation 

Strength 

Success 

Support 

Survival 

Teamwork 

Tidiness 

Tolerance 

Trust 

Understanding 

Uniqueness 

Validation 

Variety 

Vitality 

Wealth 

Welfare 

Wellbeing 

Wildness 

Wisdom 

NEXT: ACT Lesson #5: Commitment to Action