In Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), values are the guiding principles that reflect what is truly important to us, shaping our sense of purpose and direction in life. Unlike goals, which are specific outcomes we aim to achieve, values represent the broader qualities we aspire to embody, such as compassion, creativity, or connection.
By clarifying our values, we can set more meaningful goals that align with our authentic selves, enhancing our motivation and commitment to pursuing them. This alignment is particularly beneficial when facing challenges like anxiety, stress, or depression, as it helps ground us in what truly matters, fostering resilience and a sense of fulfillment even in difficult times. Embracing our values empowers us to navigate life’s obstacles with intention, transforming our struggles into opportunities for growth and deeper self-awareness.
Identifying Your Values
Two essential questions about clarifying your values are: “What makes my life rich and meaningful?” and “What do I want to stand for?” Here is a simple process of identifying values.
- Think for a moment in what areas of your life you are struggling (e.g., in relationships, at work/school, with yourself) and pick one area you want to focus on.
- Then go over the List of Values below and pick 3-5 values that feel relevant for the area of your life you chose. If you are struggling with this step, ask yourself:
- “With what value principles do you want to show up in the area of your life you chose?”
- “If in a few years people gave me feedback about what they admired about me, what value principles would I want them to comment on?”
- Once you have identified your values, move on to ACT Lesson #5: Commitment to Action to learn how to put your values into action.
List of Values
Ability
Acceptance
Accomplishment
Achievement
Acknowledgement
Activity / Action
Adventure
Agency
Aliveness
Aloneness
Altruism
Appearance
Approval
Autonomy
Balance
Beauty
Boundaries
Calmness
Caring for others
Challenge
Change
Charity
Clarity
Comfort
Commitment
Communication
Community
Compassion
Competition
Complexity
Confidentiality
Connection
Consistency
Contribution
Courage
Creativity
Curiosity
Decisiveness
Difference
Dignity
Discipline
Environment
Elegance
Empathy
Entertainment
Excellence
Excitement
Experience
Exploration
Expression
Fairness
Faith
Family
Feeling
Flexibility
Forgiveness
Fortitude
Freedom
Friendship
Fulfillment
Fun/humour
Generosity
Giving
God/religion
Gratitude
Growth
Happiness/joy
Harmony
Health
Helping
Hobbies/pastimes
Honesty
Hope
Independence
Influence
Innovation
Intelligence
Integrity
Intimacy
Justice
Kindness
Knowledge
Laughter
Leadership
Learning/growing
Letting loose
Life
Limit setting
Love
Loyalty
Making a difference
Mastery
Mediation
Money
Music
Nature
Novelty
Openness
Order
Organisation
Passion
Patience
Peace
Peacefulness
Perseverance
Personability
Playfulness
Pleasing others
Pleasing self
Pleasure
Positivity
Possessions
Power
Privacy
Purpose
Recognition
Relationship(s)
Relaxation
Reliability
Repair
Resilience
Resolution
Respect
Responsibility
Rest
Safety
Self-confidence
Self-reliance
Serenity
Service
Solving problems
Spirituality
Spontaneity
Sport
Staying power
Stimulation
Strength
Success
Support
Survival
Teamwork
Tidiness
Tolerance
Trust
Understanding
Uniqueness
Validation
Variety
Vitality
Wealth
Welfare
Wellbeing
Wildness
Wisdom
